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While it’s natural to have concerns and anxieties about marriage in relationships, especially when family dynamics come into play, these what-ifs can create unnecessary stress and self-doubt.
Katrina Kaif and Vicky Kaushal tied the knot on December 9, 2021.
Bollywood actors Ranbir Kapoor and Katrina Kaif were once one of the most talked-about couples in the tinsel town. Their relationship, which spanned seven years from 2009 to 2016, was constantly under the media spotlight. The duo’s public appearances and affectionate gestures fuelled speculation and kept fans intrigued. But eventually, their relationship ended, and the actress got hitched to Vicky Kaushal, while Ranbir is now married to Alia Bhatt.
Before stepping into her new life with Vicky Kaushal, Katrina Kaif once opened up about her “greatest fear” in relationships and also admitted to not being as close to Ranbir’s family as she would want to be during her time with Ranbir Kapoor.
In an old interview with GQ India in 2015, the Merry Christmas actress said, “If and when I get married and I am standing at the altar or the mandap, he may not love me completely. That he may not know his mind well enough to be making those commitments. The anticipation of heartbreak is my only fear.”
In the same conversation, Katrina also confessed that she was not as close to Kapoor’s family and wanted to work on it. “I am not as close to Ranbir’s family as I would like. But I would like to hang out with them more. Family would be a defining factor when I decide to marry. I am a very responsive person. So, if my partner gives me what I need, I can be the best girlfriend you can wish for,” she stated.
While it’s natural to have concerns and anxieties about marriage in relationships, especially when family dynamics come into play, these what-ifs can create unnecessary stress and self-doubt.
Family involvement can be a source of love and support, but sometimes it can also lead to undue stress and pressure. So, here are some tips to manage those ‘what ifs’ and focus on the love and commitment you have for your partner.
- Talk it Out: What-if scenarios can be a real trap in relationships, so it’s very important to have open and honest communication with your partner to resolve any issues. This will allow your partner to reassure you and build a stronger relationship.
- Focus on the Present: Instead of dwelling on hypothetical scenarios, focus on the present moment and cherish your partner. It is very important to build confidence in your partner’s love by having open communication, trust, and a lot of self-awareness. Moreover, sharing vulnerabilities with them without blame, like expressing insecurities, can effectively reinforce trust.
- Strengthen Your Relationship: Build a strong relationship with your partner’s family with openness, respect, and balance. To achieve this, maintain open and honest communication to avoid misunderstandings and show genuine interest in your partner’s traditions, stories, goals, and dreams. Embracing them with curiosity rather than judgement can be beneficial.
- Lean on Your Partner: Talk to your partner to navigate sensitive relationship dynamics effectively. Seek support for building connections with family members individually by finding their common interests or spending one-on-one time, such as joining a sibling or cousin for lunch or attending an event with a parent.
Now, Katrina Kaif is happily married to Bollywood actor Vicky Kaushal. The two tied the knot on December 9, 2021, in a grand ceremony at the luxurious Six Senses Fort Barwara in Rajasthan.