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In 18th century Europe, guests were required to bring their own eating utensils, such as spoons and forks, when invited to dinner.
In medieval Europe, it was common to wipe one’s hands on the tablecloth during meals. (Representational Image)
Throughout history, strange and rigid rules governed the lives of people across different cultures. If these rules were still in place today, it’s safe to say many would prefer to leave the world than live under such oppressive conditions. These bizarre rules often restricted basic human behaviour, from laughing to even engaging in casual conversation.
Over time, humanity has evolved, discarding many of the customs, beliefs, and restrictions that were once widespread. Some of these rules were so unusual that, if applied today, they would seem utterly suffocating. Here are 10 strange etiquette rules from history:
1. Don’t Look at the King
In ancient Japan, China, and Rome, common people were forbidden from looking directly into the eyes of the king. This rule varied by culture and time, though. For example, when a Roman king returned victorious, citizens were required to gaze upon him as he passed through the streets.
2. No Affection Towards Children
In the past, it was believed that showing affection to children, such as hugging or kissing, could weaken them. Silence was also expected from crying children, and comforting them was considered inappropriate.
3. Showing Both Hands Was Rude
In the 1700s, it was considered rude to speak while showing both hands. People would often keep one hand hidden inside their coat or tunic while speaking, and this is reflected in artwork from that era.
4. Bring Your Own Utensils for Dinner
In 18th century Europe, guests were required to bring their own eating utensils, such as spoons and forks, when invited to dinner. People often brought silver or gold utensils based on their social status.
5. Women Could Only Have One Glass of Champagne
During the Victorian era, women had to maintain a high standard of decorum at dinner parties. Drinking more than one glass of champagne was considered improper, and alcohol was generally seen as unsuitable for women, as they could be judged harshly for acting out of character.
6. Wiping Hands on the Tablecloth
In medieval Europe, it was common to wipe one’s hands on the tablecloth during meals, as napkins were not in use at the time. It was an accepted social practice, though today it would be considered rude and unhygienic.
7. Spitting on the Floor Was Acceptable
Along with wiping hands on the tablecloth, it was also common to spit bones and other food remnants on the dining room floor. The host’s servants would clean up after the guests, further illustrating how different the standards of etiquette were.
8. Laughter Was Forbidden
In formal settings, laughter was not allowed. Even if something amusing occurred, it was considered improper to laugh out loud. If laughter was inevitable, it had to be subdued, with guests covering their mouths to stifle any sound.
9. Stepping on the Threshold Was Taboo
In ancient Egypt, the threshold of a house was considered sacred, as it was believed to be protected by divine forces. Guests were forbidden from standing on this threshold; they were expected to cross it immediately upon entering.
10. Men Couldn’t Speak to Women First
In Victorian England, women had limited freedom, but they could choose when to initiate a conversation with a man. Men were not allowed to speak to women unless the woman spoke to them first, highlighting the strict social norms that governed gender interactions.
These bizarre customs and practices serve as a reminder of how far society has come in promoting individual freedom and social equality.